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Christopher James Archer

1978 - 1978
LocationAccrington, Lancashire
Age0
Cause of DeathStill Birth
Date of Birth17/12/1978
Date of Death17/12/1978
Visitors3,319 since 14/02/2008
Creator
Carole Mummy Of Christopher Archer

CHRISTOPHER AND I WOULD LIKE TO SAY A BIG THANKYOU TO ALL OF YOU WHO REGULARLY COME HERE AND LIGHT A CANDLE. MANY MANY THANKS FRIENDS XXX Special thanks to Dot for keeping Christophers candles burning xx

Tiny Angel

Tiny Angel rest your wings
sit with me for awhile.
How I long to hold your hand,
And see your tender smile.
Tiny Angel, look at me,
I want this image clear....
That I will forget your precious face
Is my one and only fear.
Tiny Angel tell me please,
Why you went away?
You were not here for very long....
Why is it, you couldn't stay?
Tiny Angel shook her head,
"These things I do not know....
But I do know that you love me,
And that I love you so".



MY STORY
My Baby Christopher was a six month gestation baby. He arrived early the week before Christmas of 1978.

He had three sisters at the time but now has five. Joanne, Lisa, Emily, Lucy and Danielle. Ten nephews and nieces, Grandma and Grandad and Uncles and Aunties.

I think a lot of people have forgotton about little Christopher and he lives on in my heart only, he was my only son but he was called back to God.

If he can get messages somehow I would like him to know that I think about him a lot and will never forget the day he arrived and left........

In April 1978 I gave birth to my daughter Emily, she was perfect and beautiful. She is my third daughter. Whilst in hospital I was told that I was not immune to Rubella, so I was given a vaccination and told that I must not get pregnant within three months. I remember laughing at that comment and saying "No Way".

Two months later, you guessed it, I was pregnant! Such a shock but hey, I'm a mum thatโ€™s all I wanted to be, so one more is no problem. Then I remembered about the doctor's warning. I saw a specialist who checked with the drug company who said that two months is the absolute limit to get pregnant after the vaccination. I worked out that I got pregnant dead on two months. The specialist told me that he thought it was a better option to have a abortion. I was around 24 weeks pregnant by that time. Being very naive and not realising that I had a voice, opinion or rights I just cried thinking that this is what I have to do. I was heartbroken, I could feel the baby inside me moving around, how could I let it die? The doctor saw how upset I was and said I could carry on with the pregnancy if I want to. It was like a reprieve to me and the baby. I was warned that the baby could be deaf, blind or brain damaged. I would face that when it came, we cant pick and chose a perfect baby, somebody has to love and care for the imperfect.

Almost a week before christmas at 26 weeks pregnant my waters broke. I didnโ€™t know what it was really as I had not experience it with the other babies. I called the doctor who came out and he just told me to "play it by ear, carry on as normal".

I was in the supermarket the same day and bumped into the midwife. When I explained the story to her she told me that I should be in bed and the waters may just replace themselves. But as a mother of three children, going to bed was quite impossible. If i had known then what I know now I would have made sure that I went to bed.

Two nights later as I was in bed I started to gasp for breath and had no energy to stand. My Mum was staying and she held me while my husband called an ambulance.

At the hospital it was discovered that the placenta had broke away from the wall of the womb which was causing bleeding. I was being monitored and checked regularly and midwife's listening to my baby's heartbeat said it was a good strong beat.

I was drifting in and out of consciousness for what seemed like an eternity but was actually thirty hours. They told me I was in labour but I only had back ache.

On Sunday afternoon 17th December 1978 I was told to push. I felt this feeling of something coming out of my body, then lay back, turned my head to the door just to see it swinging to. I knew then that was my baby in the arms of the nurse.

I cant remember feeling anything when I found out that the baby was a boy but he never breathed. I was numb.

I do remember later the nurse asking me if I wanted to "see it". The biggest mistake I would ever make in my life was to say no. I only said no because I thought that they would think I was weird. I was always the person to think what other people would think. Now I wouldnโ€™t give two hoots what anyone thought.

Now I am so full of regret that I didnโ€™t hold my baby Christopher in my arms and say goodbye. I would have liked to see what he looked like and have a picture that I could keep in my heart forever.

I have lately read that these days if your baby is stillborn you can have them for as long as necessary and take them home even. I wish with all my heart that this had been made possible for me.

Also, in those days, being young and naive I did not know what a 26 week fetus would look like and you do not imagine for a minute that it is a perfectly formed little baby.

After that door swung to and my baby was gone I was taken to the new baby ward, I was in a cubicle on my own but through the partition was a lady with twin boys, I could see through the frosted glass she was sitting holding her babies and would get visitors cooing and ahhhing. I dont think that it had sunk in that I wasnt pregnant anymore and my baby was not there.

I remember my Mum coming to see me and i smiled at her happily and said "Its a boy" I was so amazed the baby was a boy.

I was next to that lady with twins for about three days before I was sent home.

On the day I was leaving the hospital as I walked down the corridor towards the exit, I felt a pulling back, it was so strong the need to go back but I didnt realise what it was. I got outside and was made to turn around and look back. Without realising it i was being pulled back, I had forgotton something important, the pull was so strong. Being the people pleaser I am, I didnt want to keep my parents waiting so I got in the car and we drove away.

I believe now it was Christopher pulling me back, how I wish I'd have turned back now and ran back to him.

Because Christopher was born at 26 weeks there would be no funeral. Two weeks later and there would have been. So that was it. Baby delivered, baby dead, go home and move on. I was told that I had three lovely children at home. As if that made up for the little boy that didnt make it.

When I got home I was soon back into being Mum and cleaning and cooking. I cried a lot and couldnt go out sometimes.

A few days after I got home a midwife turned up at the door and breezed in the house asking "Hows Mum and Baby then"? I had to tell her that there was no baby. She was so apologetic, but it should never have happened.

When my life was getting back to some sort of normality, I started to wonder what had happened to Christopher. I wrote to the hospital asking where his body was taken. Someone had told me that they sometimes put them in the coffin with someone else that had died. If this was the case I wanted to know where he was. I needed a grave, I needed to visit and be close to him.

The reply came by letter and was the most horrific thing I had ever read. Because Christopher was born at 26 weeks they didnt class him as being a person. They didnt say for sure what had happened to him but it was suggested that he was incinerated at the hospital. Makes me very sad just writing this now. I pictured my baby boy being put in a bag and burned along with amputated limbs and things removed in operations. This letter was so cold and callous, I was so hurt and angry and even guilty, why had I let this happen.

The letter hurt so much that i could not follow it up because I didnt want to know anymore horrific details.

Now I feel like I abandoned Christopher, he called me and I didnt go. I would just like him to know he wasnt a nothing, he was my only son and I am devastated that I didnt go with my instinct, I didnt go to my son when he called.

Now on sites like this I read that these days it is quite normal to hold the baby and even take him or her home for the day. Mums have pictures to frame and graves to visit. Coming on this site makes my Christopher a person, my son. I see you all call him by his name when all these years if he was talked about he was "that baby you lost". HE IS CHRISTOPHER JAMES!
So unfair......I feel so angry and so sad thirty years after.. life goes on I know and I went on to have five daughters total. They are all lovely and I love them all so much, also have ten grandchildren all lovely too. But one little boy called Christopher who weighed 1lb 9oz will always be in my heart.
Thank you for listening,,, I have wanted to get that lot out for years. Many thanks.xxxxx

Gifts

Tributes

โ‹ฑ โ‹ฎ โ‹ฐA Christmas Wishโ‹ฑ โ‹ฎ โ‹ฐ

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โ”€โ–’โ–ˆโ–’โ”€โ”€โœทโ–„โ–„โ–ˆโ–ˆโ–ˆโ–ˆโ–ˆโ–ˆโ–ˆโ–„โ–„โœทโ”€โ–“โ–ˆโ–“โ”€โ”€โ–’โ–ˆโ–’โ”€โ”€โ”€โ–’โ–ˆโ–’

โ‹ฑ โ‹ฎ โ‹ฐ
..โœท
Christmas tree's begin appearing
Cards will follow on
trimmings all around us
and we begin to have Christmas Fun
โ‹ฑ โ‹ฎ โ‹ฐ
..โœท
greetings are being sent to us
but for some its just to hard
as simple as it sounds
they cant even send a card
โ‹ฑ โ‹ฎ โ‹ฐ
..โœท
A time for celebrating
to send a Christmas Cheer
but for some its time for wishing
Their Loved ones could just be near
โ‹ฑ โ‹ฎ โ‹ฐ
..โœท


By Lisa Heritage

Little Children

December 17, 2011

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Tributes For Week Commencing 26th September 2011

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MONDAY
♥แƒฆ♥ Your presence we miss,
Your memory we treasure,
Loving you always,
Forgetting you never. ♥แƒฆ♥

TUESDAY
♥แƒฆ♥ Everyday in some small way
Memories of you come our way.
Though absent, you are always near
Still missed, loved and always dear. ♥แƒฆ♥

WEDNESDAY
♥แƒฆ♥ As the day comes to an end,
The stars shine bright above,
I come to light your candle
To send you all my love ♥แƒฆ♥

THURSDAY
♥แƒฆ♥ No farewell words were spoken,
No time to say goodbye,
You were gone before we knew it,
And only God can tell us why. ♥แƒฆ♥

FRIDAY
If we could have a lifetime wish
And one dream that could come true
We would pray to God with all our
Hearts just to see and speak to you

A thousand words won’t bring you back
We know because we’ve tried
And neither will a million tears
We know because we’ve cried

You’ve left behind our broken hearts
And precious memories too
But we’ve never wanted memories
We only wanted you
Author Unknown

SATURDAY
God saw you getting tired
And a cure was not to be.
So he put his arms around you,
And whispered "Come to Me".

With tearful eyes we watched you,
We watched you fade away.
Although we loved you dearly,
We could not make you stay.

A golden heart stopped beating,
Hard working hands now rest.
God broke our hearts to prove to us
He only takes the best.
ANON

SUNDAY
Life is but a stopping place,
A pause in what's to be,
A resting place along the road,
To sweet eternity.

We all have different journeys,
Different paths along the way,
We are all meant to learn some things,
But never meant to stay.

Our destination is a place,
Far greater than we know,
For some the journey's quicker,
For some the journey's slow.

But when the journey finally ends,
We'll claim a great reward,
And find an everlasting peace,
Together with the Lord.
UNKNOWN AUTHOR
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___*_______ $…Thoughts Today
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_____*___ $$$$$ …Memories Forever
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______$$$$$$$$$$$..Angela ~~ Christopher’s
___*____ $$$$$$$…Very
_______$$$$_$$$$….Proud
*_____ $$$_____$$$….Mum

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Marie-Angela Rowe

September 26, 2011

~* 30th AUGUST 2011 ~*

Questions Answered.
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I doubt if I will ever find
The answers that I need to know
Why God chose you from many
And the reason you had to go.

♥~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~♥

I have searched in my mind
My heart as been questioned too
Why I never got to say a goodbye
To someone as special as you.

♥~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~♥

I have followed every footpath
Every footstep that you took
But still I found no answers
No matter how hard I look.

♥~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~♥

If I have to wait to hear
The answers, and reasons why
Then I shall get my answers
On the day that I shall die

♥~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~♥

The day we meet again
Reunited forever more
All my questions will be answered
At the closing of my door.

Copyright Sharon Wheeler.

Jan Maddison

August 30, 2011

♥ แƒฆ ♥ แƒฆ ♥ แƒฆ ♥ แƒฆ ♥ แƒฆ ♥ แƒฆ ♥ แƒฆ ♥ แƒฆ ♥ แƒฆ ♥ แƒฆ ♥ แƒฆ ♥ แƒฆ ♥ แƒฆ ♥ แƒฆ ♥

Dear All,

I will not be doing my tributes next weekend as it would have been Christopher’s 34th Birthday on Friday 20th May & his 7th Angel Day On Sunday 22nd May so it will be a difficult weekend for us as a Family


Tributes For Week Commencing 16th May ‘11

....(* " " *)…Special Angels
....( ='o'= )……In
....-(,,)-(,,)-……..Heaven Above

Monday

Death leaves a heartache
No one can heal;
Love leaves a memory
No one can steal

Tuesday

Don't be sad-
I am in a snowflake,
I am in the rays of sun,
I am in the sparkling of stars

Wednesday

Gone yet not forgotten,
Although we are apart,
Your spirit lives within me,
Forever in my heart.

Thursday

Although your darling Son
Was with you just a while
He'll live on in your heart
With a sweet remembered smile

Friday

Garden of Eden

Over some exotic rainbow
Through forest wild and free
Live my darling Angel
Beside some coconut tree.

The beaches are sands of gold
With palm trees lined around
There my darling Angel
Dwells safe and sound.

The sun always shines
It survives just by love
In this garden of Eden
My true love dwells above.
Copyright๏ฟฝ Sharon Wheeler.

Saturday

It's a Time of Heartfelt Sadness

It's a time of heartfelt sadness
When a loved one passes on
But know your loved one lives in joy
And peace where they have gone

Oh how much they will be missed
That's where the sadness lies
But others who have missed them
Now rejoice in Heaven's skies

We know one day we'll join them
Because our time on earth will flee
We'll then live with them forever
Throughout all eternity

--By Ron Tranmer ---

Sunday

Time will Ease The Hurt
The sadness of the present days
Is locked and set in time.
And moving to the future

Is a slow and painful climb.
But all the feelings that are now
So vivid and so real
Can't hold their fresh intensity

As time begins to heal.
No wound so deep will ever go
Entirely away;
Yet every hurt becomes

A little less from day to day.
Nothing can erase the painful
Imprints on your mind;
But there are softer memories

That time will let you find.
Though your heart won't let the sadness
Simply slide away,
The echoes will diminish
Even though memories stay.
Author Unknown

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♥โ‹ฐ♥โ‹ฐ♥โ‹ฐ♥โ‹ฐ♥โ‹ฐ♥โ‹ฐ♥โ‹ฐ♥
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โ”†.......โ”†.......โ”†.......โ”†
โ”†.......โ”†.......โ”†.......โ”†
โ”†.......โ”†.......โ”†.......สšฯŠษž…Thoughts Today
โ”†.......โ”†.......โ”†
โ”†.......โ”†......สšฯŠษž…Memories Forever
โ”†.......โ”†
โ”†.......สšฯŠษž…Angela ~ ~ Christopher’s
โ”†
สšฯŠษž…Very Proud Mum

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Marie-Angela Rowe

May 14, 2011

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Tributes For Week Commencing 21st March '11


....(* " " *)…Special
....( ='o'= )……Angels
....-(,,)-(,,)-

For Monday

Take a million teardrops: ~
And wrap them up with Love:~
And ask the wind to carry them,~
To you in Heaven above. ~

For Tuesday

Let This Candle Guide You~
Through The Darkest Time Of Night~
Feel The Warmth And See The Glow~
Till The Early Morning Light~

For Wednesday

Our Sunshine in the Daytime ~
Our light in the Glowing Moon ~
We Miss our precious Angels ~
That are here on Gone Too Soon,~

For Thursday

One Day In The Future ~
Which Day We Don’t Know ~
We'll Wrap Our Arms Around You ~
And Never Let You Go~

For Friday

My Friend I Care

Don’t tell me that you understand.
Don’t tell me that you know.
Don’t tell me that I will survive,
How I will surely grow.

Don’t come at me with answers
That can only come from me.
Don’t tell me how my grief will pass,
That I will soon be free.

Accept me in my ups and downs.
I need someone to share.
Just hold my hand and let me cry
And say, “My friend, I care"
Anon

For Saturday

When We Remember

You can shed tears that they are gone
Or you can smile because they have lived
You can close your eyes
And pray that they’ll come back

Or you can open your eyes
And see all they have left
Your heart can be empty
Because you can’t see them

Or you can be happy for tomorrow
Because of yesterday.
You can remember them
And only that they have gone

Or you can cherish their memory
And let it live on
You can cry and close your mind,
Be empty and turn your back

Or you can do what they wanted:
SMILE,
Open your eyes,
LOVE
And go on
Anon

For Sunday

Grief Is Like A River

My grief is like a river,
I have to let it flow,
But I myself determine
Just where the banks will go.

Some days the current takes me
In waves of guilt and pain,
But there are always quiet pools
Where I can rest again.

I crash on rocks of anger;
My faith seems faint indeed,
But there are other swimmers
Who know that what I need

Are loving hands to hold me
When the waters are too swift,
And someone kind to listen
When I just seem to drift.

Grief's river is a process
Of relinquishing the past.
By swimming in hope's channels,
I'll reach the shore at last
Author Unknown

♥ แƒฆ ♥ แƒฆ ♥ แƒฆ ♥ แƒฆ ♥ แƒฆ ♥ แƒฆ ♥ แƒฆ ♥ แƒฆ ♥ แƒฆ ♥ แƒฆ ♥ แƒฆ ♥ แƒฆ ♥ แƒฆ ♥ แƒฆ ♥

♥โ‹ฐ♥โ‹ฐ♥โ‹ฐ♥โ‹ฐ♥โ‹ฐ♥โ‹ฐ♥โ‹ฐ♥
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โ”†.......โ”†.......โ”†.......โ”†
โ”†.......โ”†.......โ”†.......โ”†
โ”†.......โ”†.......โ”†.......สšฯŠษž…Thoughts Today
โ”†.......โ”†.......โ”†
โ”†.......โ”†......สšฯŠษž…Memories Forever
โ”†.......โ”†
โ”†.......สšฯŠษž…Angela ~ ~ Christopher’s
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สšฯŠษž…Very Proud Mum

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Marie-Angela Rowe

March 19, 2011

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Tributes early this week it’s My Birthday on Monday
Another Birthday without my Special Angel Son
So no tributes for the next few difficult days

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Tributes For Week Commencing 28th February

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Monday

~x♥x~ Memory has a magic way
Of keeping loved ones near,
Ever close in mind and heart,
Are the ones we hold most dear ~x♥x~

Tuesday

~x♥x~ A candlelight glows in memory,
Of the love we still hold.
A life that touched so many,
Treasured gifts as memories unfold ~x♥x~

Wednesday

~x♥x~ Heavens Angels surround you
And sprinkle their love and care
As our thoughts remain with you
In our hearts you will always be there ~x♥x~

Thursday

~x♥x~ There's A Place In Our Hearts
That No One Else Can Fill
We Miss You With All Our Heart
We Love You And Always Will ~x♥x~

Friday

A little heart stopped beating
There was nothing we could do
Your precious life was ended
And we said a prayer for you.

You must have been very special
For God to take you by the hand
But why you had to leave so soon
We'll never understand.

Author Unknown

Saturday

I’d like the memory of me
To be a happy one
I’d like to leave an after glow
Of smiles when life is done

I’d like to leave an echo whispering
Softly down the ways
Of happy times and laughing times
And bright and sunny days

I’d like the tears of those who grieve,
To dry before the sun
Of happy memories that I leave,
When life is done.
Author Unknown

Sunday

I would rather have a little rose
From the garden of a friend,
Than have the choicest flowers
When my stay on earth shall end.

I would rather have the kindest words
And a smile that I can see,
Than flattery when my heart is still
And this life ceased to be.

I would rather have a loving smile
From the friends I know are true,
Than tears shed around my casket
When the world I bid adieu.

Author Unknown

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...( )’ ””()...................Memories Forever
'(”( ’o’, )……..Angela ~~~~ Christopher’s
(o)(o)(,,)…….Very Proud Mum

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Marie-Angela Rowe

February 25, 2011

Sweet Dreams Precious Angel

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...........Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
.....….Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum

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Marie-Angela Rowe

January 31, 2011

Sweet Dreams Precious Angel

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-----’’J(’’ ♥’’)--.()♥ ()………..Are
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...........Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
.....….Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum

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Marie-Angela Rowe

January 31, 2011

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If I Knew

If I knew it would be the last time
That I'd see you fall asleep,
I would tuck you in more tightly
And pray the Lord, your soul to keep.

If I knew it would be the last time
That I see you walk out the door,
I would give you a hug and kiss
And call you back for one more.

If I knew it would be the last time
I'd hear your voice lifted up in praise,
I would video tape each action and word,
So I could play them back day after day.

If I knew it would be the last time,
I could spare an extra minute
To stop and say "I love you,"
Instead of assuming you would KNOW I do.

If I knew it would be the last time
I would be there to share your day,
Well I'm sure you'll have so many more,
So I can let just this one slip away.

For surely there's always tomorrow
To make up for an oversight,
And we always get a second chance
To make everything just right.

There will always be another day
To say "I love you,"
And certainly there's another chance
To say our "Anything I can do?"

But just in case I might be wrong,
And today is all I get,
I'd like to say how much I love you
And I hope we never forget.

Tomorrow is not promised to anyone,
Young or old alike,
And today may be the last chance
You get to hold your loved one tight.

So if you're waiting for tomorrow,
Why not do it today?
For if tomorrow never comes,
You'll surely regret the day,

That you didn't take that extra time
For a smile, a hug, or a kiss
And you were too busy to grant someone,
What turned out to be their one last wish.

So hold your loved ones close today,
And whisper in their ear,
Tell them how much you love them
And that you'll always hold them dear

Take time to say "I'm sorry,"
"Please forgive me," "Thank you," or "It's okay."
And if tomorrow never comes,
You'll have no regrets about today.

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...........Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
.....….Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum

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Marie-Angela Rowe

January 11, 2011

Memories That Last Forever

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..........._\ * โ™ซ * /_Angel's
........._\*** โ™ช***/_..Are
......._\ *โ™ซ * * โ™ช * /_...Special
.......\ *o.. *โ™ซ*.. o.*./
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Memories are heartbeats
Sounding through the years
Echoes never fading
Of our smiles and our tears.

Moments that are captured
Sometimes unaware
Pictured in an album
Or a lock of hair.

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Images that linger
Deep within the mind
Bit of verse we cherished
Once upon a time.

Through the musty hallways
Of the days we knew
Ever comes the vision
Beautiful and true.

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Memories are roses
Blooming evermore
Full of fragrant sweetness
Never known before.

Life must have a meaning
Goals for which to strive
Memories are lights that burn
To keep the heart alive.

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Grace E. Easley

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♥ SEASON’S GREETINGS แƒฆ ♥แƒฆ SEASON’S GREETINGS ♥

...........Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
.....….Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum

♥ SEASON’S GREETINGS แƒฆ ♥แƒฆ SEASON’S GREETINGS ♥

Marie-Angela Rowe

December 29, 2010
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